If you’ve caught yourself saying any of these and worried about your memory, or about what is happening to you, you are in very good company. It’s the most common thing people tell me.
Arriving at your appointment on time, because you knew exactly where you put your keys. Greeting the neighbor down the road by name, without that second of panic. Walking into a room and remembering why you came.
Carrying the shopping list in your head, and coming home with everything on it.
These are small moments. Together they are the difference between getting through your day and enjoying it.
Somewhere in your family right now there is a birthday you are supposed to know. A name your granddaughter has mentioned twice. A story that only you can still tell properly.
You have always been the one who holds those things.
And if you keep holding them, then you keep your place at the center of it all. Nobody starts speaking to you slowly. Nobody starts checking up on you. Nobody starts making decisions and telling you afterwards.
You get to be the one who greets the new neighbor by name. The one who shops without a list and comes home with everything on it. The one the grandchildren keep telling things to, because you remember what they told you last time.
So here is what it costs to start looking after it.
Less than a coffee. Less than a birthday card. One short brain exercise every weekday, for roughly the price of nothing at all.
You already spend more than that on things that do nothing for you. This is the one that keeps you sounding like you.
